FEMALE
SEXUAL DYSFUNCTIONS
Sexual dysfunction is a common problem among females. Almost half of all females have persistent
sex problems, such as little or no sex
drive, trouble reaching as orgasm or pain during intercourse. It is a
disorder characterised by a persistent or recurrent inability to attain sexual
arousal or to maintain arousal until the completion of a sexual activity.
This problem can also be due to an inadequate lubrication
swelling response normally present during arousal and sexual activity. This
should be distinguished from a general loss of interest in sexual activity and
from other sexual dysfunctions , such as the anorgasmia (orgasmic disorder ) and hypo active sexual
desire disorder , which is characterised as a lack or absence of sexual
fantasies and desire for sexual activity for sort of time.
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NORMAL
SEXUAL FUNCTION
Normal sexual function is a complex interaction involving
both the mind and the body. The nervous, circulatory and endocrine hormonal
systems , all interact with the mind to produce a sexual response.
Sexual function and response may include the following
also –
Motivation – It is the wish to engage
in or continue sexual activity. There are many reasons for wanting sexual
activity, including interest in or desire for sex. Sexual interest or desire
may be triggered by thoughts, words, sights, smells, or gentle touch.
Motivation may be obvious at the outset or may build once the female is
aroused.
Arousal – Arousal has a subjective element –
sexual excitement that is felt and thought about. It also has physical element I.e. an increase in blood flow to the genital
area. In females the increased blood flow causes the clitoris and vaginal walls
to swell ( this is called engorgement ). The increased blood flow also causes
vaginal secretions or lubrication to increase. Blood flow may increase without
the female being aware of it and without her feeling aroused.
Orgasm –
Orgasm is the climax or peak of sexual excitement. Just before orgasm, muscle
tension throughout the body increases. As orgasm begins, the muscles around the
females vagina contract rhythmically.
Females may have several orgasms.
Resolution –
Resolution is a sense of well being and widespread muscular relaxation.
Resolution typically follows orgasm. However, resolution can occur slowly after
highly arousing sexually activity without orgasm. Some female can respond to additional
or more stimulation almost immediately after resolution.
DESIRE
FOR SEX
For females, desire may develop once sexual activity and stimulation
begin. Sexual stimulation can trigger
excitement and pleasure and physical responses including increased blood flow
to the vaginal area.
Desire for sexual satisfaction builds as sexual activity and intimacy
continue, and a physically and emotionally rewarding experience fulfils and
reinforces the woman’s original motivations. Some females may feel sexually satisfied whether they have an
orgasm or not. Other females have much more sexual satisfaction with an orgasm.
Desire before sexual activity typically lessens as female’s age but temporarily
increases when females, regardless of their age, have a new partner.
Desire for
sex is based on a complex interaction of many activities. It is based on a
complex interaction of many things. For
females, desire may develop once sexual activity and stimulation begin.
Most of the females, for example,
they may be attracted to a person engage in sexual activities for several reasons such as physical pleasure, affection, love, romance,
or intimacy. However, females are more likely to have emotional motivations,
such as--
Affecting
intimacy.
Physical and
emotional well being.
New experiences.
Beliefs .
Modern life style.
Current relationship.
To confirm their desirability.
To please or placate a new partner.
SYMPTOMS
OF SEXUAL DYSFUNCTION
Symptoms of dysfunction are very much depending on what
type of sexual dysfunction some one is experiencing.
Low sexual desire – This is the most common
of female sexual dysfunctions involves a lack of sexual interest and
willingness to be sexual.
Orgasmic disorder – Females have persistent or
recurrent difficulty in achieving orgasm after sufficient sexual arousal and
ongoing stimulation.
Sexual arousal disorder – Female’s desire for
sex might be intact, but have difficulty
with arousal or are unable to become aroused or maintain arousal during sexual
activity.
Sexual pain disorder – Females have pain
associated with sexual stimulation or vaginal contact.
CAUSES OF FEMALES SEXUAL
DYSFUNCTION
Many females experience problems with sexual function at
some point, and some have difficulties throughout their lives. Female sexual dysfunction can
occur at any stage of life. It can be in certain sexual situation or in all
sexual situations.
Many factors cause or contribute to various types of sexual dysfunction.
Traditionally, causes are considered physical or psychological. However, the two types of causes cannot be
separated. Psychological factors can cause physical changes in the brain,
nerves, hormones, and, eventually, the genital
organs. Physical changes can have psychological effects, which, in turn, have
more physical effects. Some factors are related more to the situation than to
the females. Also, the cause of sexual dysfunction is often unclear.
Sexual response involves a complex interplay of
physiology, emotions, experiences, beliefs, lifestyle and relationships.
Disruption of any component can affect sexual desire, arousal or satisfaction,
and expert sexual advice often involves more than one approach.
Persistent, recurrent problems with sexual response,
desire, orgasm or pain, that distress or
strain relationship with the partner are
known medically as sexual dysfunction.
Many factors causes or contribute to various types of sexual
dysfunction. Few of them may be as follows –
Psychological Factors – Depression and anxiety are commonly
contribute to sexual dysfunction. It has been observed that many females are
facing sexual dysfunction because of these reasons, sexual dysfunction becomes
less severe when antidepressants effectively treat the depression. Various
fears like –of letting go, of being rejected , or of losing control and low
self esteem can contribute to sexual dysfunction.
Physical Factors – Various physical
conditions and medication may lead or contribute to sexual dysfunction.
Hormonal changes, which may occur with ageing or result from a disorder, can
interfere. Any number of medical conditions, including cancer, kidney failure,
multiple sclerosis, heart disease and bladder problems, can lead to sexual
dysfunction. Certain medications, including some antidepressants, blood
pressure medications, antihistamines and chemotherapy drug can decrease sexual desire and body’s ability to experience orgasm.
After menopause, change in the vagina
and urinary tract ( genitourinary syndrome of menopause ) can also affect
sexual function. It happens due to the tissues of the vagina can become thin,
dry, and inelastic after menopause because estrogen levels decrease. This
condition, called vulvovaginal atrophy ( atrophic vaginitis ), can make
intercourse painful.
Urinary symptoms that can occur at menopause include a compelling need to
urinate ( urinary urgency )
and frequent tract infections.
Similar symptoms can also result from removal of uterus and hormonal
changes that occur after a baby is delivered.
Hormonal Factors – Lower estrogen levels
after menopause may lead to changes in women’s vaginal tissues and sexual
responsiveness. A decrease in estrogen leads to decreased blood flow to pelvic
region, which can result in less vaginal sensation, as well as needing more time
to build arousal and reach orgasm.
The vaginal lining also becomes thinner and less elastic,
particularly if someone is not sexually active. These factors can lead to
painful intercourse. Sexual desire also decreases when hormonal levels
decrease.
Female body hormone levels also shift after giving birth and
during breast feeding, which can lead to vaginal
dryness and can affect desire to
have sex.
Situational Factors – Factors related to the
situation may also affect female dysfunction in various types as --
The female’s own situation – Females may have a
low sexual self image if they are having fertility problems or had surgery to
remove a breast, the uterus or any other body part associated with sex.
The personal relationship – Females may not trust or may have negative feelings
about their sex partner. They may feel less attracted to their partner than
earlier in their relationship.
The Culture – Women may come from a culture that restrict sexual expression or activities. Cultures sometimes make
women feel ashamed or guilty about sexual activities. Females and their
partners may come from cultures that view certain sexual practices differently.
The surroundings – The situation may not be erotic, private, or safe enough for
uninhibited sexual expression.
Distractions or emotional stress –
Family, work, finances or other things can preoccupy women and thus interfere
with sexual arousal.
Long standing conflicts with your partner –
If due to any reason, conflict about sex or other aspect of relationship is going on between partners, it may diminish
sexual responsiveness as well. Different cultural and religious issues and
problems with body image and language can also contribute in dysfunction.
Previous
experiences – Female’s previous experiences can affect their
psychology and sexual development, causing problems, as in the following -
Negative sexual or other experiences may lead to low self esteem, shame
or guilt.
Emotional, physical or sexual abuse
during childhood or adolescence can
teach children to control and hide emotions, some may find it a useful defence
mechanism.
However, females who control and hide emotions may have difficulty
expressing sexual feelings.
Sometimes if any females lose her parents or another loved one during
childhood, they may have difficulty becoming intimate with a sex partner
because they are afraid of a similar loss, sometimes without being aware of it.
Various sexual worries can impair sexual function. As females may be
worried about unwanted consequences of sex such as pregnancy or a sexually
transmitted infection or about their partner’s sexual performance.
Treatment of sexual dysfunctions
A number of studies have explored the factors that contribute to female
sexual dysfunctions. These factors
include both psychological as well as physical factors. It may be due to
psychological factors only or a combination of different factors.
There are several sub types of
female sexual arousal dysfunctions. These might be since birth or acquired,
might be based on context, might occur in all general situation or in specific situation.
This depends on mind set also, this dysfunction might occur with a spouse but not with other partner or with multiple partners.
The length of time the dysfunction has existed and the extent to which it
is partner or situation specific, as opposed to occurring in all situations,
may be the result of different causative factors and may influence the
treatment for the dysfunction.
There has been little research of the impact of individual factors on
female dysfunction. Such factors include stress, level of fatigue, gender
identity, general health, and other individual attributes and experiences, such
as dysfunctional sexual beliefs that may affect sexual desire or response.
Over exposure to Adult videos or
movies. This is also thought to lead to poor body image, self consciousness and
lowered self esteem.
Female dysfunction can also occur due to major Psychiatric disorders.
If dysfunction is due to Physical, Psychiatric problems as high blood
pressure, depression, anxiety, disabilities, other chronic disease it is recommended to consult
with specialist and the treatment must be according to doctors advice and under
their supervision.
When the dysfunctions are due to
psychological or situational, females can work with their healthcare treatment
plan. It is important to understand the psychological cause before choosing
therapies.
There might be several plans to treat
non medical dysfunctional problem, few of those are as follows –
Arousal techniques – Talk to your
partner about different ways, you can enhance desire and arousal. Consider
making changes to your sexual routine.
You may also try erotic materials such as sexual stimulation devices,
informational sexual books and videos etc.
Pain reliever – There are several
approaches to reducing vaginal pain during intercourse which certainly help you
to get rid of the pain. Female can also try different sexual positions, vaginal
lubricants or relaxation techniques
before sex. Vaginal dilators may also be used.
Hormone therapy – Depending on the
symptoms, females may use topical creams, vaginally administered medications or
hormones taken orally or applied to their genital skin.
Sex education – It has been observed
that a lower level of sex education
was frequently linked with higher
risk of female sexual dysfunction. This include general education as well as
detailed and healthy sex education.
Sometimes, females can have mistaken beliefs about sex that prevent them from
fully enjoying it. They may believe that aim of all sexual activity is orgasm
through vaginal penetration alone. Clearing up any myths or misunderstandings
and learning sexual techniques may help
to treat dysfunctions.
Vagina dilator – Females with
vaginismus can try dilator training, which involves inserting a smooth plastic dilator into the vagina
while trying to relax the pelvic floor muscles. Once a female feels comfortable
with one size, may move up a size
until she can have sexual intercourse without pain.
Pelvic floor exercises –
Pelvic floor symptoms are significantly associated with reduced sexual arousal,
infrequent orgasm, and dyspareunia . Kegel floor exercises very supportive for
female sexual dysfunctions . It also strengthen the pelvic floor muscles, which
support the uterus, bladder, small intestine and rectum.
Engaging in many
types of sexual activities – Short time direct
intercourse will not fulfil your desire of complete sex, stroking and kissing
responsive parts of the body and touching each other’s genitals enough before
initiating intercourse may enhance intimacy and lessen anxiety.
Respect and love – Females need
trust, respect, love and emotional intimacy to respond sexually. There should
not be any kind of conflicts before or during intercourse. Couples may need
help learning to resolve conflicts which can interfere with their relationship.
Spare time for sexual activity
– Normally females are used to multitasking, may be preoccupied with or
distracted by other activities like personal work, household chores, children
and community. So every time females can’t be ready for sex. Making sexual
activity a priority and recognising how counter productive distractions may help.
Practising mindfulness
– Mindfulness involves learning to focus on what is happening in the moments,
without making judgements about for monitoring what is happening. Being mindful
helps free females from distractions and enables them to pay attention to sensations during sexual activity by
staying in the moments.
Choosing a good time and place
– Females always prefer good time
and place for sexual activities.
Late at night when a female is ready for sleep after finishing daily household
works is certainly not a good time for sex. Females are shy by nature, Make sure the place is private and safe can
help if she is afraid of discovery or interruption. Enough time should be
allowed, and a setting that encourages sexual feeling may help.
Prevent unwanted consequences
– Obviously females like sex, but fear is always there for unwanted pregnancy
or sexually transmitted infections or inhibits desire. In this situation female
doesn’t gets aroused and can’t enjoy sex properly. So it becomes necessary to
take step to prevent unwanted consequences.
Spent time together – Females who
talk and meet each other regularly are more likely to want and enjoy sexual
activity together. They always prefer sex with the person whom they know well rather than with stranger.
Open Communication – It is necessary
to talk and listen with your partner it makes a world of difference in your
satisfaction. Even if you are not used to talking about your likes and
dislikes, learning to do so and providing feedback in a non threatening way
sets the stage for greater intimacy.
Use lubricant – A vaginal lubricant may be helpful during intercourse if you have
vaginal dryness or pain during sex. You can use vaginal lubricant
yourself to get more sensation
and pleasure or you can ask your partner to do the same gently and deeply.
Use a device – Females may get more
arousal with stimulation of the clitoris. Ask your partner to do it with his
finger or a vibrator of your choice to
stimulate your clitoris.
Practice healthy lifestyle habits
– Excess alcohol is not good in anyway, No or limit your alcohol consumption,
drinking too much can blunt your sexual responsiveness. Regular physical
activity can increase your stamina and elevate your mood, enhancing romantic
feelings. Learn ways to decrease stress so you can focus on and enjoy sexual
experiences for very long time.
Well to Conclude – Just becoming aware
of what is required for a healthy sexual response may be enough to help women
change their thinking and behaviour. However more than one treatment is often
required because many women have more than one type of sexual dysfunction.
Sometimes a multidisciplinary team, including sex counsellors, pain specialists,
psychotherapists and physical therapists, is needed.
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