FEMALE G-SPOT REALLY EXITS ?

Orgasm can reduce stress, improve your skin, and make feel, well, great. However, for many women,     orgasm which especially achieved  through  penetration, can be just elusive as the mysterious G-spot.             

First of all lets understand, what is  G-Spot ?

G-spot described  by a very famous German physician and scientist named Ernst Granfenberg, supposedly an inch or two inside the vagina on the anterior wall in. Then in 1982 a book called The G-spot And Other Discoveries about Human Sexuality popularised  Grafenberg’s findings.

The G-spot, also called the Granfenberg spot is characterised as an erogenous area of the vagina that, when stimulated, may lead to strong sexual arousal.

Since then there has been a lot of speculation and discussion around the topic. The scientific world has not been able so far to find enough evidence to support the existence of the G-spot and doctors and scientists claim that it doesn’t actually exist.

However a lot of women talk about experiencing highly erotic and pleasurable sensations when this particular area is stimulated, some women can even experience powerful orgasm there, often paired with female squirting.

HOW TO FIND G-SPOT

To other women stimulating the G-spot feels quite neutral and others don’t like it at all. Which  only adds to the confusion around this mysterious area, so first of all let’s locate the G-spot.

USE YOUR FINGER

In order to find it you need to insert one or two fingers inside the vagina, about two knuckles in or five to eight centimetres should do it and then feel the area located on the anterior wall, the wall closest to     the belly. Woman should be able to sense this short of ridges there, in short while this area will begin to swell and so the ridges will become more pronounced.                                                                                

So what is this area and why does it feel different than the rest of the vagina canal ? The G-spot is located in the clitoris-urethral-vaginal complex which is the area where the clitoris, urethra and vagina meet.

All these structures – the clitoris, the urethra and the vagina have a lot of nerves ending which contributes to the sensitivity of this area and to the pleasure that a woman can feel when the G-spot is stimulated and speaking of the urethra, it is surrounding by the urethral sponge and that sponge is this sort of cushion of tissues that sits against the vaginal wall in the exact place where the G-spot is supposed to be.

So while the G-spot itself might not be a real thing, there is definitely quite a particular area there ( on the vaginal wall ) that is capable of giving a woman pleasure. The idea behind finding and describing the mysterious G-spot was that it was meant to empower woman and help them experience arousal more easily.

However so far it has also created a big problem, it sent  on a frantic search of a structure that looks and feels and behaves differently in different woman because, all women are  unique and their bodies and vagina are different, and while some woman will experience heights of pleasure while having their G-spot stimulated, for others it won’t feel that great. And that doesn’t mean that there is anything wrong with those women.

All women are like  snowflakes  in the world of human sexuality. All different , all unique, but when someone  try to reduce every single woman to how her G-spot responds, many women will feel inadequate or even broken, but sexual pleasure was never supposed to be just about finding the G-spot and so it’s wrong to expect that every woman should enjoy G-spot pleasure or have G-spot orgasms.

SEX POSITIONS FOR STIMULATION OF G-SPOT

When someone is looking to experience G-spot stimulation during sexual intercourse, there are certain sex positions that are useful. Try position that allow a little more control over movements so it can be figured out  what  types of stimulation is most enjoyable. There may be various, few are mentioned here—

ON TOP POSITION – COWGIRL

Ask male partner lay on his back, then climb on top and straddle him. This position allows woman to     have  complete control over the rhythm, depth, and angle of penetration so the woman focus on finding G-spot. Instead of  bobbing up and down, moving back and forth to stimulate the G-spot region against the vaginal inner wall. Mixing  it up with different speeds and angles, will give the maximum               stimulation.                                                                                                                                                    

ON ALL FOURS- DOGGY STYLE

Stay on your hands and knees with your partner behind woman, this style is another way to achieve    deeper penetration during sex, it’s easy to vary the angle to hit woman’s G-spot. Another                         similar position, lying on  stomach with legs hanging off the edge of the bed, allowing  her partner to     stand behind and penetrate from there.                                                                                                         

TIGHT MISSIONARY POSITION

This is the classic missionary position, it allows for greater stimulation without the depth of penetration. Woman will start off on her back in missionary position before moving legs together, her partner’s         legs should straddle her, allowing a tighter squeeze. It does create a tighter feeling and more                    increased friction against G-spot.                                                                                                                                       

Back when someone at woman's early stage on her tantric and sexual journey, there is a good chance that there is no G-spot at all, there is no magical area inside the woman’s vagina that’s meant to make all women have  no G-spot at all, there is no magical area inside the women’s vagina that is meant to make all women orgasm, instead there is a clitro- urethral- vaginal complex  that feels and behaves differently in all women. We definitely need more research when it comes to women’s bodies and women’s sexuality.

Women have not been studied enough when it comes to their erotic response and there is still so much they don’t  know due to insufficient sex education.

So if someone enjoy the stimulation of her G-spot area great if she can orgasm from it or even squirt fluid during that orgasm, amazing but if she can’t find her  G-spot or if she does not feel much when that area is stimulated, that okay as well, there is nothing wrong with her  and she is  not dysfunctional.

Her concern is to find and identify her special spots, that gives joy, arousal and pleasure, regardless of what the media, friends or anybody else has to say about that. Also remember that the best contributors to sexual satisfaction for majority of women  are a sense of intimacy and a deep heart connection between partners. So don’t get fixed on any supposedly magical spot in the vagina.

Well to Conclude – It’s relatively uncommon for women to orgasm through intercourse alone. In fact, according to some research, only about less than 20% of women achieve orgasm through penetration alone, means no need of touching of genitals, oral, is needed. More often than not, clitoral stimulation is required, or at least beneficial, when it comes to orgasm during sex.

A conscious mindful masturbation practice is a great way to explore and discover all the delightful spot  that  their  body comes with. And if they need a bit of help with them self pleasure practice. To keep in mind that masturbation is completely normal and it can be healthy part of any relationship.

The most important aspect is that the woman should be Satisfied. Exploring body and sexual preferences is a great step in making sure that she is happy, safe and having pleasurable sex life. No body should never feel ashamed of figuring out what she likes. After all, Everyone deserve to have great life.

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