Early ejaculation turns her irritated!!

 

Guys, are you one of those who try to avoid sexual intimacy because of early to very early ejaculation. Every woman naturally desires her man to carry on more and more during sexual play on bed. In few cases it just not happens, man reach climax sooner than her. It has been observed that the normal average time until ejaculation is five minutes. But few always ejaculate within one minutes of penetration of penis into vagina or are always never able to delay ejaculation.

Naturally sexual desire in man is higher as compared to women. And  women may have tendency for demanding lengthy sexual plays.

On the contrary men gets aroused very early and due to less or no control, ejaculate soon even she is on the way of arousing.

It is obvious, reaching orgasm too early, gets her irritated, annoyed, and frustrated. If she can’t orgasm often becomes uninterested in sex, because your efforts might not fulfilling for her.

“In the long run, the woman becomes distressed and frustrated. Much like the man, she avoids sexual contact for fear of rejection and the resulting trauma for her own sexuality,” explains sex researcher Andrea Burri.

Despite what you might think, ejaculating early is not the end of the world. It fact depending on how react and what you do next, this can be still an absolutely wonderful, exciting and satisfying experience for both of you.

Now it might be necessary to learn how exactly to handle a situation when you shoot too quickly is obviously frustrating and not what you typically want to happen in bed. But it does happen whether you suffer from premature ejaculation or whether you can usually last as long as you want. And when it happens there isn’t much you can do it to stop it. However, what you do next can make a huge difference and be a deciding factor whether you both walk away disappointed or deeply satisfied.

Show positive reaction

 

The first thing you need to keep in mind is your own reaction to your early ejaculation. Yes it’s disappointing and not what you wanted. But acting all frustrated or even ignoring it, is going to make the situation worse. Why, because your reaction will in many cases tell her what to think about you, sexual relationship, or even live in relationship with you. It may be appreciable that you’re taking care of her socially, financially, but what about her sexual desire?  Have you ever thought that to fulfil sexual need of her is not less than fulfilling the need of any other most essential and demanding nature.  

Here is what I mean. If you start acting all depressed or annoyed, you are actually in that moment telling her that what had happened wrong meaning you shooting your load too quickly, which she doesn’t like, is in fact a terrible thing.  And when she sees  you getting down on yourself. She will very likely share the sentiment and feel disappointed. However if you make light of the situation and accept it with a sense of peace and a positive attitude, she will see that it’s no big deal. It’s always better to talk humbly, brief her  the reason of early release of white load, it may be due to mental tension, work overload, fatigue of the day and so on, believe me she will understand you and offer her help to get rid of the problem.   

Focus on her need & pleasure

 

Early ejaculation is not something unique, It happens to the most of the couples, and remember it’s not the end of the world, let’s move on just because  your penis is done for now, doesn’t mean that there is no other way to satisfy her.

Sex isn’t all about in the intercourse and there are many things to two of you can do together to have more erotic fun. So focus on her and her pleasure. Ask her what she would like, what she desires, what would give her the most pleasure in that moment.

Because while woman do love intercourse. She also really love other things too, particularly if you involve stimulating her clitoris, So go down on her or stimulate her with your hands and with plenty of lube. Use your pointed tongue to tease her clitoris, sometimes circle your finger and tongue on her anal opening too. Rub your genitals together, touch, kiss, caress her, give her an erotic massage or fulfil any other wish or desire that she might has, of course, yes a hard wand is awesome great for thrusting. But penetrating her with your penis is not what brings most women to orgasm.

Try again

 

Sex has no age bar. As age increases, everyone gets more maturity and experience. It’s not that you could not perform well this time, you’re failed, No it’s not true, you can do much better sometime later. Depending on your physical and mental capabilities, stamina, general health, fitness and a few other factors, you might be able to go again.

This is up to you to decide and if you can ask her to wait a while, and tell her that I need a little break but how about if I give you sensual touch or a full body sensational massage, or something more sensual which ever you like, while we wait? be honest to explain, that any other sexual activity will surely make me hard too, definitely she is going to like it,  and for sure it will enhance erotic feelings of both of you, will add more sexual satisfaction and provoke to enjoy more sexually and emotionally satisfaction too.

Talk to her

 

Communication is so important when it comes to sex. And particularly when it comes to sexual performance and any issue. Early ejaculation can and does happen and ignoring it is the worst thing that you can do. So talk to her, express how you feel and what you desire to create in your sex life together.

Tell her about your feelings of frustration, sadness, or disappointments when you can’t quite perform the way that you would like and ask her what you can do for her, to make her feel good and taken care of sexually speaking. Don’t assume that you know what she’s thinking. So many men think that good sex consist of plenty of fast, intense thrusting. But the truth is that actual real women want a lot of more than just a penis in her vagina action. And talking to her will teach you exactly what your woman desires.

Think ahead

And most important, always be far sighted, Never worry about coming early ever again. Do you want to feel confident that you can last as long as you want every single time. Do you want to never have to depend on medication, or numbing cream? There is lot to do, which is proven and tested. Just promise yourself to learn how to get harder, last as long as you want easily and naturally through the proper technique and practice it regularly. It’s not any impossible task. But easy and enjoyable which will assist you to feel healthy, enjoy your sexual life and more over satisfy your beloved one and keep her happy always.

 

FAQ—

Do early ejaculation creates problem for women?

In many cases yes, it creates, especially mental & sexual problem.

Is premature ejaculation is curable?

Of course it can be controlled and cured with the help of balance diet, regular physical & kegel exercise, good sound sleep, and medical advice if needed.

Any alternates of early ejaculation?

So many alternate sexual activities can satisfy woman, like gentle kissing, licking her genitals, bath together, sex toys, erotic body massage and so on.     

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