How to Enjoy Multiple Orgasms

You have heard of multiple orgasms and how you would like to start having them for yourself. You are feeling intrigued and curious, may be even a little intimidated by the mysterious world of other ecstatic traditions, but you are not sure where to start or how to approach it practically, let’s elaborate more to learn how to start having multiple orgasm.

What are multiple orgasms – Multiple orgasms happens when a person reaches an orgasm more than once during a sexual experience. This can happens all by self or with a partner and this can happens to both men and women, and these orgasm can happens in close proximity or your arousal can decline before it builds up again leading you to yet another climax, and then another one and so on. Unfortunately it seems that currently very few people and couple of the world population is multi orgasmic, and the most exciting thing about it all is that anybody can train their body in the art of multiple orgasms.

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If you are mature and sensual enough you can experience around you have the capability to be multi orgasmic. So how many orgasms can you have? Over the years different studies have attempted to quantity orgasm and to learn more about human orgasmic potential. But we really still don’t know a lot about what is possible when it comes to human sexuality, multi orgasmic women typically report having about 5 to 6 orgasms per session but there are women who can go much higher than that. There is really no limit to this number but there are a few factors that will affect how many orgasms you can have. How much time you have for sex or masturbation? How connected you are to your own body and your sexuality? How familiar you are with your erogenous zones level of past sexual training or hurt still present in your body, any inhibitions, limiting beliefs, shame, guilt or any other blockages present in your system, and even your anatomy and libido.

Refractory period is something that we recently need to discuss here. Refractory  period refers to the amount of time your body needs to recover after each orgasm before you can become sexually aroused again. For men this means not being able to have another erection after they ejaculate. Many women also report experiencing a refractory period where their clit becomes too sensitive for a while, before it can be touched again. But women typically experience a much shorter refractory period than men. Also a lot of women talk about being able to experience internal, vaginal orgasms.

The vaginal orgasm feels different and they don’t involve any refractory period at all since they don’t  rely much on rubbing of the clitoris. Hence most people assume that women are naturally multi orgasmic and that men are not, however here is the revelation, men can have orgasm without ejaculation too. Now this is something that most modern men have never heard of but in few ancient society and group, lovers have been practising it for thousands of years. Orgasm and ejaculation are in fact two separate phenomena that usually happen together for a man.

Ejaculation is the pleasurable squirting of the semen, while orgasm is a release of arousal of sexual energy that you are building up, up to the point of climax. Orgasm feels like an intense surge of pleasure in your body and it typically happens just before ejaculation. There are different techniques that allow men to separate ejaculation from orgasm and for most men this process involves at least a few weeks of training.

How to have multiple orgasms – There is a number of factors you need to keep in mind here because in essence you want to build up a perfect storm that will support your body is going into multi orgasmic state. This might sound tricky to achieve but its really not once you have the necessary awareness of what is required. Take your time during intercourse or masturbation means that you are giving your body more chance to build up enough arousal for another orgasm. So don’t stop too quickly, partners who communicate regularly and openly about their desires, needs and wants in the bedroom report having better, more satisfying and more frequent orgasms, being familiar with your erogenous zones means that you can give yourself or request from your partner the right kind of stimulation from your partner, the right kind of stimulation which will lead you into another climax. So make sure to explore your body and experiment with different kind of touch. This kind of curiosity can lead you to discovering new more orgasmic ways of touching your body. If you intend to orgasm more than once, you will be more likely to do that.

So make sure to check your mindset. If you are stressed, tense or tired. It might not be up for multiple orgasms. Relax your body to rest or take care of yourself until you are feeling calm and relaxed before you start your multi orgasmic session. A lot of people report that sex toys enhance their skill to orgasm so give it a go. You can visit a sex toy shop to pickup goodies accordingly for your bed room play.

Breath & mindfulness – Deep breath and mindfulness can create wonders when it comes to arousal and pleasure. So stay connected to your body. If you are distracted and your breath is considered abnormal, your body will struggle to eliminate the arousal.

Why do you want to be multi orgasmic – Let’s have a little check in here, why exactly do you want to be multi orgasmic? When it comes to orgasm, its really not about the quantity but about the quality. Multiple orgasms can sound amazing but not everybody needs them. If you are perfectly satisfied with your sex life even if you only climax once per session, that’s perfectly fine. Don’t fix it if are not broken. It is wonderful and exciting to always aspire to better experience but don’t let that pursuit stop you from enjoying what you already have, because epic orgasm can be exactly what you need to feel satisfied.

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